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Pain is a Blessing

 You don't realise that you are still bleeding from past wounds till something tries to hold that part of you again. You forget about the wound until you realise it never really healed completely. I have been reminded of many wounds I considered healed over the years. But one day or the other, something would strike that place again, only for me to learn how to care for it properly; instead of trying to lock it away somewhere far from the reach of my mind.  I, for one, dreaded the haunting task of reviving my ghosts, fearing their chokehold on me. I was repelled by the idea of reliving the past in fear that I would lose myself in there, I would never come out of those woods alive. I feared the pain that reached the very fibre of my being with every breath I took in the graveyard of my heart.  The fear washed away with the realisation that pain is an inevitable part of our lives, it is there to make us feel alive. Pain shows us the parts that still need our love and care f...